Im the Magnet of Information

I often wondered why most of my friends share their personal / private information to me. Is it because I don't easily open up with other people or am I just trustworthy enough? There are people who chooses who they open up to and I guess I belong in this criterion. Damn, I felt grateful yet cursed because somehow, other people think we we're gossiping about them when in fact, they're just sharing some tidbits of information about their lives. There was this instance when one of my co-employee, lets just call him Jing-jing, who somehow loves to talk about himself, his relationship with his lover and family and mostly his plans for a greener pasture, so with our silent whispers and giggles, one of my co-employees thought it was about him/her.  I wanted to explain to him/her that it wasn't about him/her yet he/she should indifference towards me, so, I kind of stopped talking to him/her.  In my defense, it isn't my business if he/she feels like that and I come to a conclusion that I won't be explaining anything to him/her. We were not even talking behind his/her back.  I am not guilty of anything he/she accused me of. Between the two us, HE/SHE should be the one to feel the guilt and he/she knows why. Can he/she somehow be a bit remorseful with his/her actions? Yet, he/she managed to turn the table. How awesome is it? Well, the good thing is, after two weeks of silent treatment, he/she comes around like nothing happened, like it's all in the past now.  And personally, I'd rather be on speaking terms with him/her than hold grudges to anyone.  Let's just say, I easily forgive but hardly forgets. Hahaha!!!